That topic has been covered extensively. Here are some recent blog articles on the topic:
I turned to twitter to see what people thought about money and happiness. I asked a simple question: “Money makes you happier. Agree or disagree?” Here are the responses:
What I want to discuss today is what ‘chrisjdavis‘ was alluding to above: does happiness lead to being rich (i.e. does it improve your ability to hold on to money)?
In other words, can I smile my way to lasting riches? In a way, I think I can.
Often people attempt to live their lives backwards; they try to have more things, or more money, in order to do more of what they want, so they will be happier. The way it actually works is the reverse. You must first be who you really are, then do what you need to do, in order to have what you want. ~ Margaret Young
We’ve all heard the saying, “a fool and his money are soon parted.” I think maybe another saying should be equally as popular: “the unhappy and his money are soon parted.”
How Our Money is Affected by Being Unhappy
When we’re unhappy, our spending is affected.
My belief is that we tend to buy a lot of unnecessary things on an impulse when we’re unhappy.
There is a real high that comes from making a new purchase (i.e. retail therapy). The exciting feeling we get when we own something shiny and new is real and measurable.
I think we use that feeling to help us deal with the unhappiness in our lives.
Not only do I think we buy more stuff when we’re unhappy, we tend to pay more for the stuff we’re buying. So say the results of this University study: “Sad and Self-Focused Individuals Spend More”.
These purchases all add up to the type of spending that has us living beyond our means. Which, as we know, will not lead to financial success.
Danny Kofke, author of A Simple Book of Financial Wisdom: Teach Yourself (and Your Kids) How to Live Wealthy with Little Money ($4.99 on Kindle), thinks so too. He says that,
“A lot of people are unhappy in their lives—be it spiritually, in their careers, with their spouse, and so on. To combat this unhappiness they buy things.”
He’s certainly enjoyed a nice level of financial success (he’s managed to get ahead on nothing but a teacher’s salary), so he can attest to happiness being at the core of his success.
In addition to spending, it makes sense that our income could be affected by our happiness. I would estimate that getting a job, getting a raise, and getting new clients is much easier for someone who is happy.
Happiness Isn’t a Guarantee of Wealth
Does happiness guarantee wealth and lasting financial success? Certainly not. There are plenty of happy people with money problems. However, I do believe happiness is a core ingredient to building wealth and keeping that wealth.
So How Can You Be More Happy?
What a huge question, right? I’m not going to pretend to answer that one. But what I can do is throw out some things that I think have helped me to be happy and content:
- Getting older certainly helps. When I compare myself now to in my twenties I see myself as much happier. With age comes a natural contentedness that I think leads to more happiness.
- Not to mention, you just get busier the older you get. I’m dealing with a couple of businesses, a wife and kids, friends, and the list goes on. There isn’t much time to be unhappy.
- Focusing on someone or something else (besides yourself, that is) can also lead to a sense of happiness. I’m usually pretty happy when I’m producing something (i.e. like writing this post).
What makes you happy?
Someone I respect a great deal on the topic of happiness is Dennis Prager. He’s studied the topic throughout his career and he’s someone who I think can speak with some authority. Here’s a video he did a while back that explains some of his thinking in this area: Happiness is a Moral Obligation
What do you think? Does our unhappiness affect our ability to have financial success? What are some ways you’ve found to be more happy?